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How to Praise the Lord

Sometimes words and phrases evoke emotions in people beyond what they mean. A friend recently blogged about how the word “worship” has a negative meaning for her.

Although understanding what she meant—and empathizing a bit—I didn’t think too much more about her post until a while later when I recalled my own issues with the phrase “Praise the Lord!”

Honoring God is a good and right action. Affirming God’s goodness and provision is both biblical and warranted, something I do often—though not as frequently as he deserves.

However, I’m quite sure the actual words “Praise the Lord!” have never passed my lips.

For I cringe every time I hear it, not because of the words themselves or the meaning behind them, but because of my baggage that I’ve tied to those who use—and abuse—the phrase “Praise the Lord.”

The spontaneous reaction I have to that phrase is disdain.

Some People Exude a Fake Faith

Those with pretend perfect lives, no hardship, and a perpetual smile. They get a flat tire and the first thing out of their mouth is “Well, praise the Lord!”

Now I understand the importance of not walking around with a perpetual frown. But life isn’t always good.

Bad things do happen. And while I have confidence God will somehow, at some time, turn everything icky into something better, I stop short of proclaiming, “Praise the Lord!” at the first sign of trouble.

Then there are the thoughtless who use it to fill the space between sentences and to insert whenever their thoughts pause as they search for their next words.

More than once, I’ve mocked preachers for doing this:

“Open your hymnals, praise the Lord!…to hymn number 113, praise the Lord, where we’ll sing the first, third, and fifth versus, as Sister Marquette—praise the Lord—plays the organ. Now everyone rise—Praise the Lord!—and sing….” Ick.

Get me out of here. I wish I was exaggerating, but I’m not.

Last are those who spout this platitude with mindless repetition. They say it more often than I utter “um,” “well,” and “so.” (Sometimes I do this all at once, as in “Well, um, so….”)

No matter what is said, these folks respond with “Praise the Lord.” And no matter what they say, they tack on “Praise the Lord!” to the end.

Sometimes they even say it when it makes no sense. Someone asks, “What’s the price of gas?” and they respond with, “Well, praise the Lord!” Then when asked why they said, ‘Praise the Lord?’ and they deny ever doing so.

I’m so scarred by this that even when people say, “Praise the Lord” at the right time and for the right reasons, I still shudder.

Yes, we do need to celebrate God, but instead of just saying, “Praise the Lord!” let’s actually do it in a way that truly honors him.

Can I get an Amen?

(Here I share my thoughts about “Amen.”)

Peter DeHaan writes about biblical Christianity to confront status quo religion and live a life that matters. He seeks a fresh approach to following Jesus through the lens of Scripture, without the baggage of made-up traditions and meaningless practices.

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Beware of Spiritual Incest

When at a business convention, I once spouted off a grand sounding idea, but it was really a bad suggestion that warranted immediate rejection.

Yet I proclaimed it with passion and the air of authority (I had just finished speaking on the subject, and this new added thought added to the discussion).

I presented my spontaneous brainchild with logic. The person I said this to, nodded his comprehension.

Intellectual Incest

However, before the convention was over, several people approached me to discuss this same thing. I doubt we all had the same notion at the same time.

I’m quite sure it was my one bad idea, merely recirculated within a tight group, with no one questioning its wisdom.

I later labeled this phenomenon as intellectual incest: reproducing a bad idea within a close group of like-minded thinkers, who blindly accept it as true.

Spiritual Incest

The same can occur in a close group of like-minded spiritual thinkers. I’ll call this spiritual incest. I see it happen often. One person shares an insight or experience with their inner circle.

Everyone accepts it as reliable, without scrutinizing its validity or testing its wisdom. When this happens, people are misled and unhealthy conclusions result.

I recently blogged about theological silos: the natural tendency of people to surround themselves with others who hold to the same spiritual perspectives.

An unhealthy progression of this is spiritual incest. It’s easy to spot by listening to the words and phrases used.

A localized dialect of Christianese emerges.

Theological Incest

A bit harder to notice is when this creeps into our theology. It occurs easily enough when a respected leader makes a passionate statement, sounding wise and maybe even backed up with a sound bite from the Bible.

This moves into heresy, but most don’t realize it. The close-knit faith community reproduces this one bad idea, blindly accepting it as fact, but it’s really spiritual incest.

We need to beware of spiritual incest.

Peter DeHaan writes about biblical Christianity to confront status quo religion and live a life that matters. He seeks a fresh approach to following Jesus through the lens of Scripture, without the baggage of made-up traditions and meaningless practices.

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4 Questions about New Age Ideas

I recently listened to some people talk about spiritual matters. Their language perplexed me. While some of their expressions fit within my biblical worldview, other utterings did not.

I resist labeling people, but labels can aid in understanding, even though they’re more likely to produce misunderstanding.

I wondered if they operated within a New Age perspective, the melding of various Eastern and Western religious practices.

While I respect their search for spiritual enlightenment, their path is not one I embrace. My dilemma, however, was how to react to the things they were saying.

What Is Positive Energy?

One person asked everyone to “send positive energy” to someone who was struggling.

Should I interpret that as an opportunity to pray to Jesus for that person’s healing or dismiss it as heresy?

What Does Meditation Mean?

Then someone suggested meditating to find answers while bowed before an altar and with incense burning.

Could I understand that as quieting my heart before God and listening for the Holy Spirit’s direction? Or should I dismiss it?

Who Is the Divine?

A third person talked about praying to the divine.

Do I apply that as praying to the God of the Bible or reject it as making an impersonal petition to an abstract deity?

Should I Engage or Retreat?

These three questions, however, beg a bigger one—one for which I have no answer:

When confronted with divergent spiritual perspectives, can I practice my faith within the constructs of that religious structure or should I remove myself from this new age the situation?

Peter DeHaan writes about biblical Christianity to confront status quo religion and live a life that matters. He seeks a fresh approach to following Jesus through the lens of Scripture, without the baggage of made-up traditions and meaningless practices.

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Watch Your Language

Avoiding Christianese

I once shared a story with a new friend and fellow followers of Jesus about a young boy praying for his teacher. My friend was perplexed and silent for a moment.

Finally, she stammered out an explanation, ”I’ve never prayed for people before.” I didn’t know how to take this.

Did she mean to say that she never offered prayers on behalf of others? Was this a foreign concept to her? Did she have a theological aversion to intercession? Aside from liturgical prayers uttered at church, did she not pray?

To make sure that we aren’t misunderstood, we need to choose our words carefully

Or perhaps it was my words that threw her off. If instead of saying “prayed for…,” what if I had said “asked God to bless…” or “requested that God watch over…?” Would alternate phrasing have removed the confusion?

Recently, the MC at an event randomly picked an audience member to participate in the show and was making the requisite small talk. The person was attending with a group of ministers and said he was “waiting for a call.”

I knew what he meant, but the host was perplexed. Even the guest’s explanation left his interrogator confused.

When we move in tight spiritual circles, we are bound to fall into using phrases and terminology that make complete sense to our friends but leave those on the outside confused and perplexed.

To make sure that we aren’t misunderstood, we need to choose our words carefully so that our efforts to communication are not thwarted. We need to watch our language.

Peter DeHaan writes about biblical Christianity to confront status quo religion and live a life that matters. He seeks a fresh approach to following Jesus through the lens of Scripture, without the baggage of made-up traditions and meaningless practices.

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