Bible Insights

Do We Take Ourselves Too Seriously?

Jesus calls us to change and become like little children

Matthew tells the story about Jesus asking his disciples, “Who’s the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” The disciples don’t answer. Either they don’t know or they’re afraid to attempt an answer, for fear they might be wrong.

Jesus takes a child and places this youngster before his followers. Then he tells them, “You won’t get into the kingdom of heaven unless you change and become like a kid.”


The first requirement to enter God’s kingdom is to change. Another word for this is repent. Think of this as making a U-turn. To turn our lives around and follow Jesus.

This change may involve our attitude, our priorities, or our actions. Maybe all three. We need to change and follow Jesus.

Become Like Children

Once we change, Jesus tells us to become like children. What does this mean? I don’t think Jesus is giving us permission to act childish. That would be an excuse for irresponsibility.

Instead it may be a call for a childlike faith. Little children are so trusting.

They believe in their parents unconditionally, who they know will take care of them. These parents want the best for their kids and will do anything for them.

These kids know that. Jesus wants us to look at him the same way, as children with unwavering trust.

The Outcome

When we change and become like children, following Jesus with a childlike faith, three things occur:

1. Enter the Kingdom of Heaven

Consider the kingdom of heaven as both a present reality and a future hope, an eternal destination. When we repent and follow Jesus like a child, the kingdom of heaven is the inevitable result.

2. Become Great

When we assume this lowly position as a child, Jesus says we will become the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.

3. Welcome Jesus

Furthermore, if we welcome a child in Jesus’s name, we welcome him. Think of the things we would do for Jesus if he were suddenly standing in front of us. Now we need to go do that for his kids.

As adults we sometimes take ourselves too seriously. Perhaps we do this most of the time.

Jesus’s call to change and become like children may be a call for us to loosen up and love him with unabashed passion, just as small kids love their parents.

[Read through the Bible this year. Today’s reading is Matthew 17-19, and today’s post is on Matthew 18:1-5.]

Peter DeHaan writes about biblical Christianity to confront status quo religion and live a life that matters. He seeks a fresh approach to following Jesus through the lens of Scripture, without the baggage of made-up traditions and meaningless practices.

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