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Book Review: The Slave Across the Street

By Theresa L. Flores, with Peggy Sue Wells (reviewed by Peter DeHaan)

The Slave Across the Street, by Theresa L. Flores puts a face—a middle-class American face—on human trafficking, specifically for the purpose of commercial sexual exploitation.

This real-life account of Theresa’s recruitment, manipulation, and coercion to become a sex slave will surprise and shock. The result is a poignant portrayal of a reality that many would deny or choose to ignore.

Coming from a well-to-do middle class family, having both parents present, and living in an affluent neighborhood, Theresa Flores does not fit the stereotypical image of a girl who is unwillingly sucked into a life of forced prostitution.

Wisely sparing graphic gratuitous details, only enough is shared to allow readers to begin to comprehend the horrors that Theresa endured during her two years of sexual exploitation, physical violence, and emotional threats.

Even with these minimal details, it is at times too much.

The purpose of The Slave Across the Street, however, is not to shock or overwhelm, but to inform.

First, human trafficking for the sex industry is an evil reality in the United States.

Second, no one is truly immune from being forced into this insidious practice. Third, many people could have prevented Theresa from being pulled into it or helped extricate her from it, but they didn’t.

They chose to look the other way, to be passive and avoid doing the right thing.

This included the very people who should have protected here and kept her safe: teachers, school counselors, security guards, police and the even moms living in the houses where her abuse took place,

How does the story end? This isn’t a spoiler; the subtitle makes it clear: “The True Story of How an America Teen Survived the World of Human Trafficking.” Most girls in situations like Theresa’s are never freed from it.

Many remain inextricably mired in it until they die, often by suicide or murder. Theresa Flores, however, is a rare exception.

Once liberated, Theresa’s road to recovery was long and painful, but now she is a powerful voice, speaking out against the horrors that she endured as a trafficked teen.

The book concludes with a list of ten ways concerned people can get involved.

The Slave Across the Street is a book that I didn’t want to read, but couldn’t avoid—and neither should you.

[The Slave Across the Street, by Theresa L. Flores, with Peggy Sue Wells. Published by Ampelon Publishing, 2010, ISBN: 978-0-9823286-8-2, 183 pages, $14.99]

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Bible Insights

Can You Be Quiet?

Silence Is Golden

We live in a world where it’s hard to sit still and even more challenging to be silent.

We are conditioned to be moving, active and physically engaged. And as we do so, we expect to be surrounded with sound, to be constantly exposed to an auditory stimulus.

To be still can be a stretch for us and to be quiet, quite unattainable. Many would ask, “What’s the purpose of being still?” “Why should I be quiet?” There’s nothing to be gained by doing so.

But God has a different idea. He says “Be still and I know that I am God.” And upon reflection, King David adds, “Silence is praise to you.”

Being still connects us with God and being quiet praises him.

Be still…be quiet…

[Psalm 46:10 and Psalm 65:1]

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Personal Posts

Where Do Frogs Come From?

Last night while mowing my lawn, I saw three frogs in my yard. In 24 years of living here and mowing the grass, this was a first.

Where did the frogs come from? I know the biological answer and the evolutionary answer and the creation answer, but those are the wrong answers to my question. I want to know why this trio of amphibians suddenly showed up in my yard.

  • There is no water on my property or nearby,
  • We are not in a low spot,
  • My lawn is not even damp, and
  • Given the drought earlier this summer, the water table is surely lower than normal.

Where did my frogs come from?

I asked the ever-resourceful Google and was treated with 29,300 exact matches to my query, but the top four sites didn’t provide the answer I was seeking. With 29,296 still to check, I’ve already given up.

I turn the question over to you: Where did the frogs in my yard come from?

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Peter DeHaan writes about biblical Christianity to confront status quo religion and live a life that matters. He seeks a fresh approach to following Jesus through the lens of Scripture, without the baggage of made-up traditions and meaningless practices.

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Bible Insights

Make Praise Your Habit

If your experience is like mine, you likely know people who are chronic complainers. They seem to be always venting about something that went badly or someone who did them wrong.

Negativity is their default mode; their glass is half empty.

Their nearly constant negativity makes them hard to be around. Their complaining attitude can be contagious and if we’re not careful they can rub off on us.

This is in sharp contrast to people who are generally positive, who see the good in life and in circumstances. These folks are fun to be around.

Their attitude is uplifting and encouraging, and also contagious. We want their positive demeanor to rub off on us.

Now consider God and us. Do we tend to complain to him, telling him all that is wrong with our lives? Or are we mostly positive, thanking him for all the good that surrounds us?

I wonder if the chronic complainers aren’t God’s favorite people to be around either. Likewise I suspect he delights in those who are thankful.

This thought will surely reform my prayers. After all, the Bible says, “make praise your habit.”

[Read through the Bible with us this year. Today’s reading is Psalms 61-65, and today’s post is on Psalm 64:10.]

Peter DeHaan writes about biblical Christianity to confront status quo religion and live a life that matters. He seeks a fresh approach to following Jesus through the lens of Scripture, without the baggage of made-up traditions and meaningless practices.

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Visiting Churches

Why is Community Important at Church?

For the past 19 weeks, my bride and I have been visiting different churches to expand our understanding of how others worship and understand God.

We call this initiative “52 Churches” and I blog about the experience each Monday morning.

52 Churches: A Yearlong Journey Encountering God, His Church, and Our Common Faith

However, friends frequently ask for more: “What are you learning,” “Is your journey changing,” or “Have you found any churches you want to revisit?” The short answers are

  1. We’re learning a great deal,
  2. the vision for our sojourn is unchanged, and
  3. there are several churches we’d like to revisit.

A key realization at this point is that it’s not about the teaching or the music; it’s about the community.

We’ve heard messages from gifted speakers and not so gifted. We’ve been taught by the formally trained and the self-trained. We’ve been presented with deep thoughts and entertaining anecdotes.

In all cases, we’ve received a worthwhile word from God. I suspect as long as we’re open to hear and expectantly pray for that to happen, it will.

Similarly, we’ve sung traditional hymns, contemporary songs, and modern praise choruses. We’ve been led by accomplished vocalists and struggling crooners.

There have been worship bands, pipe organs, and pianos, accompaniment tracks, and even a capella.

In all cases, as long as we’re willing to focus on the words, God is there.

Message and music, I’m sad to report, are not important.

The big variable is the community. Community is that time of interaction with others (aside from that awkward official greeting time). This is when connections are made and God is shared.

God seems more present in these informal interactions before and after the service than in the planned and carefully prepped moments during the service.

In a few churches, there is no community. People come, people sit, and people leave, with nary a word exchanged.

Fortunately, most churches have community and some excel at it. These are the churches I want to return to; these are the experiences that excite me; these are the moments when God is most powerfully present.

Community is church at its best.

My wife and I visited a different Christian Church every Sunday for a year. This is our story. Get your copy of 52 Churches today, available in ebook, paperback, hardcover, and audiobook.

Peter DeHaan writes about biblical Christianity to confront status quo religion and live a life that matters. He seeks a fresh approach to following Jesus through the lens of Scripture, without the baggage of made-up traditions and meaningless practices.

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Peter DeHaan News

Peter DeHaan to Speak at Breathe Conference

Local Author to Give Writers Workshop

Author Peter DeHaan will be speaking at the upcoming Breathe Christian Writers Conference taking place on October 12 and 13 in Dutton Michigan, just a couple miles from the Grand Rapids airport (the Gerald R. Ford International Airport).

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“I’ve attended the Breathe Christian Writers Conference for the past two years and am excited to be one of this year’s workshop presenters,” stated Peter DeHaan.

“It’s a first-class operation and a tremendous value for writers at all levels. I am honored to be part of this year’s conference.”

The title of Peter’s workshop is “Writing 101: Getting Started in Your Writing Career.” It’s designed for new writers, those considering writing as a career, and those who want to breathe new life into their work.

“I’ve been writing for thirty years—and a writer for three,” DeHaan recently quipped. This is not a dichotomy, but an acknowledgment that Peter has years of experience to share but can do so through the eyes of a relative newbie, who only recently considered writing as his career.

Peter DeHaan, a published author since 1983 and a magazine publisher and editor since 2001, will share his insights and offer advice to help attendees get started in the exciting world of writing when he speaks at the Breathe Conference.

Topics include: the myths and misconceptions of being a writer, how to get started—and succeed, avoiding rookie mistakes, tools of the trade, and honing your craft. If you are new to the world of writing or need a primer to get started, this is the ideal session for you.

The keynote for this year’s two-day conference is publisher, speaker, and author Terry Whalin whose sessions will cover “Never, Never, Never Give Up” and “Keep Growing, Keep Learning.”

In addition to other general sessions, there will be an array of workshops, plenty of networking opportunities, and time for informal social interaction.

Learn more about writing and publishing in Peter’s book: Successful Author FAQs: Discover the Art of Writing, the Business of Publishing, and the Joy of Wielding Words. Get your copy today.

Peter DeHaan writes about biblical Christianity to confront status quo religion and live a life that matters. He seeks a fresh approach to following Jesus through the lens of Scripture, without the baggage of made-up traditions and meaningless practices.

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Reviews of Books & Movies

Book Review: Secrets of the Secret Place

Secrets of the Secret Place: Keys to Igniting Your Personal Time with God

By Bob Sorge (reviewed by Peter DeHaan)

The intent of Secrets of the Secret Place is directly stated in the subtitle: to ignite your personal time with God. Towards that end, author Bob Sorge takes readers on a journey of starting and pursing their own personal time with God.

His instruction is amply supported by scripture, but his treatise is not a theoretical and untouchable one; it is born out of his own journey and personal experience.

Sadly, few Christians ever embark on this journey and fewer still persist in it.

Sorge wants to change that and Secrets of the Secret Place is his foundational effort towards that end.

Secrets of the Secret Place is a four-part, 52-chapter book. (If 52 chapters are off-putting, know that each one is short, averaging a scant four pages.)

In part one of Secrets, Sorge opens with basic teachings on how to establish a secret place with God.

Building upon that, part two introduces practical, hands-on tips. Next, in part three, are contained encouragements to make this practice a lifelong pursuit.

The concluding section considers truths that will aid in this personal time becoming one of deeper intimacy with God.

With Secrets of the Secret Place containing 52 chapters—actually 52 “secrets”—one possible use is as a year-long, weekly study for a small group or class. Alternately, it can be pursued individually at the reader’s preferred pace.

Although Secrets is a standalone resource, for those using it as a group study, additional tools are available, including a leader’s guide, a companion study guide, and a DVD (containing twelve, 30-minute sessions, taught by Bob Sorge).

In reading Secrets of the Secret Place, there may be the temptation to read the entire book before embarking on your own journey. While that may seem wise or even practical, it is also a delaying tactic that is counterproductive.

Read chapter one and start the journey, then go one to chapter two.

This book is not a formula for finding your secret place with God, but rather a guide that will move you in that direction; each person will fill in the details as to what works best for them.

As such, Secrets is not a book that is read once and shelved, but a resource that is repeated returned to on this journey of “igniting your personal time with God.”

[Secrets of the Secret Place: Keys to Igniting Your Personal Time with God, by Bob Sorge. Published by Oasis House, 2001, ISBN: 978-0-9704791-0-5, 221 pages.]

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What is Eternal Death?

Since eternal life is the result of following Jesus, what’s the alternative? Might “eternal death” be the opposite?

If eternal life starts immediately when we begin our journey with Jesus, does eternal death start as soon as someone rejects him?

If eternal life results in heaven, don’t eternal death result in hell?

Some opine that eternal death is merely physical death; when the bodies dies, that person is forever gone; their spirit does not live on; it dies too. Death is the end.

However, that’s not my understanding. You can’t have the promise of heaven without the possibility of hell.

For those who follow Jesus, eternal life begins here and now when they align with him. When their body dies, their spirit continues on, enjoying eternal life in heaven.

For those who don’t follow Jesus, eternal death begins here and now when they disregard him. When their body dies, their spirit continues on, suffering eternal death in hell.

[See verses about eternal death in the Amplified Bible, the Message, and the New Living Bible]

Peter DeHaan writes about biblical Christianity to confront status quo religion and live a life that matters. He seeks a fresh approach to following Jesus through the lens of Scripture, without the baggage of made-up traditions and meaningless practices.

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Christian Living

Are You a Pharisee?

When we think of the word pharisee, we envision a narrow-minded, hypocritical, self-righteous person. To call someone a pharisee is an insult. So, when we read pharisee in the Bible, we automatically think ill of that person.

However, a Pharisee was someone devoted to following a strict moral code aligned with Moses’ instructions, which he received from God.

They were devoted to following the Almighty and did so with zealous dedication. They were the most religiously minded people in the Bible, the spiritually elite.

Paul was a Pharisee before he made a U-turn to follow Jesus. Yet afterwards he persisted in that label and the practices that accompanied it. To him, being a Pharisee was an honorable designation, not a slur of derision.

Yes, Jesus was highly critical of Pharisees, but not because of their zeal for God, rather because they got carried away, making it into something it was never intended to be. Their intentions were noble; their execution was lacking.

In some ways—the right ways—we should be more like a Pharisee: following God’s moral code and zealous for him.

Peter DeHaan writes about biblical Christianity to confront status quo religion and live a life that matters. He seeks a fresh approach to following Jesus through the lens of Scripture, without the baggage of made-up traditions and meaningless practices.

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Book Review: The Reluctant Prophet

The Reluctant Prophet: A Novel

By Nancy Rue (reviewed by Peter DeHaan)

In the novel The Reluctant Prophet, by Nancy Rue, forty-something Alison is still trying to figure out what she wants to do when she grows up.

Though she has been a faithful church attendee for seven years, her faith is still nominal.

Then in the midst of a church service, she is startled to have God speak to her. “Alison,” he nudges, “Go out and buy a Harley.” She is to go wherever it will take her.

Never mind that she has never driven a motorcycle nor has the funds to buy one.

Even so, she eventually finds herself acquiescing to God’s incessant nudging and obeys his instruction.

Her inward-looking church “friends” don’t get it—and even try to stage an intervention for her.

Her narcissistic neighbors are no less understanding. But she has made some new friends in the biker community; they become like family, always ready to help.

Alison’s motorcycle does take her to some unusual places, often dangerous and ill-advised. Yet God has a call on her life and she is increasingly drawn to follow it—no matter what the cost.

[The Reluctant Prophet: A Novel, by Nancy Rue. Published by David C. Cook, 2010, ISBN# 978-1434764966, 496 pages, $14.99]

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